This is the hard way

Honestly, we don’t recommend this for anyone. But it does give a sense of the power and flexibility available to those wanting to self-host at home. My own self-hosted home server is similar.

https://jforberg.se/blog/posts/2023-02-19-rockpro64/rockpro64.html

By the way, there are so many great servers for sale on eBay with 16G ram, Xeon processors, etc. that work very well as a home server without the fragility and for roughly the same initial price.